A friend asked me earlier, "How do I reward myself when I achieve these mini goals?" I interestingly had no answer except that I create a new goal. Right now I am so focus on this task that a reward isnt necessary. But it got me wondering, "what in the hell should I reward myself with?" All the things I have found pleasurable (eg, eating and drinking) are completely counter-productive to achieving these mini goals.
So I ask you, "What would be a good reward?"
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ReplyDeleteYour reward is acheiving the goal!!! why do you feel entiled or necessary for something additional?
ReplyDeleteWhereas I understand the don't be a sissy aspect and not to stop til you reach the top. Even on a mountain climb you can stop and enjoy the view. That's all this is. The final destination doesn't have to be the only motivator.
ReplyDeleteI think it should be something for yourself. Maybe a massage or something. You know, you worked hard to get where you are at. Relaxing is a good thing. Go somewhere that you've been wanting to go. Get something you've been putting off getting.
Dan
That's what I was trying to get at, Dan. The final goal is TRUELY the great reward. This is a long trial and the occasional self reward for mini goals could be helpful. Its not about entitlement and I did say right now I'm plenty motivated without a reward.
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